Post by beresford on Apr 23, 2010 22:08:04 GMT -8
I have had several conversations today regarding interpersonal issues within the pack. Silky complains about Camille. Camille complains about Silky, Ziggy complains about Camille. I am now about to voice some opinions; take what you will from them then you all can shut up and deal with it.
We are a pack not a love fest I don’t expect all butterflies and harmony, what I do expect is that when we have problems with each other we will strive to better each other and not just complain. I welcome your input... when it is constructive.
Silky, as pack priest you are in charge of our spiritual growth and guidance. Writing someone off is not an option, complaining about someone is nothing but bullshit. Don’t be such a hard ass, if you see that one of us is not honoring our path then counsel them and if that doesn’t work punish them with negative status or as is appropriate. If you come to me and let me know that one of us will not work with you or is taking no heed of your guidance I will support you 100% in correcting them. We are all fallible however, you however have to give a chance to grow and improve.
Camille, if you are not getting the respect you think you deserve, earn it. You have a big mouth and that does not engender respect nor does it win you friends. You have created childer and I question the wisdom of both your choice and your timing. You must face the consequences of both your words and actions and you don’t think enough before you do either. It is my hope however that you will prove my doubts to be unnecessary. You are a powerful weapon and can be an asset to both the sect and the pack but you have yet to learn to focus that power and not waste it.
Ziggy, with your urges under control you can be a valuable member of the pack and I am honored to stand with you. When they are not you can be a danger to the pack. You took great umbrage at the granting of your negative status. You are far more accommodating of your own flaws then you are of those of others. If you see a fellow pack mate not acting up to their potential I expect you to offer guidance not just condemnation.
Lilith by the way is only a prospective (not probationary) member of the pack and an offer of membership will only be tendered once she proves herself an asset.
We are a pack not a love fest I don’t expect all butterflies and harmony, what I do expect is that when we have problems with each other we will strive to better each other and not just complain. I welcome your input... when it is constructive.
Silky, as pack priest you are in charge of our spiritual growth and guidance. Writing someone off is not an option, complaining about someone is nothing but bullshit. Don’t be such a hard ass, if you see that one of us is not honoring our path then counsel them and if that doesn’t work punish them with negative status or as is appropriate. If you come to me and let me know that one of us will not work with you or is taking no heed of your guidance I will support you 100% in correcting them. We are all fallible however, you however have to give a chance to grow and improve.
Camille, if you are not getting the respect you think you deserve, earn it. You have a big mouth and that does not engender respect nor does it win you friends. You have created childer and I question the wisdom of both your choice and your timing. You must face the consequences of both your words and actions and you don’t think enough before you do either. It is my hope however that you will prove my doubts to be unnecessary. You are a powerful weapon and can be an asset to both the sect and the pack but you have yet to learn to focus that power and not waste it.
Ziggy, with your urges under control you can be a valuable member of the pack and I am honored to stand with you. When they are not you can be a danger to the pack. You took great umbrage at the granting of your negative status. You are far more accommodating of your own flaws then you are of those of others. If you see a fellow pack mate not acting up to their potential I expect you to offer guidance not just condemnation.
Lilith by the way is only a prospective (not probationary) member of the pack and an offer of membership will only be tendered once she proves herself an asset.